Kupiansk — Bohodukhiv — Kharkiv: the story of a family restored by support

When the war reached Kupiansk, the Slastion family — a grandmother, a mother with a disability, and three children — found themselves in conditions in which no child should have to grow up. Long stays in a basement shelter, constant explosions, and forced relocation deprived the children of their basic right to safety and development, as enshrined in the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child.

Their first refuge was a remote village in the Bohodukhiv district. Quiet, but without opportunities for learning, communication, or play. The children became withdrawn, silent, and showed strong signs of anxiety. The oldest brother, who was 10 at the time, tried to help the adults but remained a frightened child himself.

The move to Kharkiv became a turning point. In the dormitory, the family’s condition immediately drew the attention of the mobile team of NGO “Responsible Citizens.” Specialists noticed that the children avoided contact, barely spoke, and the twins did not respond when addressed. The team quickly provided winter assistance from UNICEF and clothing vouchers — essential items that restored the children’s sense of care and dignity.

Then a comprehensive process began, aimed at ensuring the child’s right to recover from trauma. A psychologist, a speech therapist, and an art therapist worked with the children systematically. Within just a few weeks, the family became more open, calm, and active. The older son showed curiosity and leadership qualities, eagerly joined the sessions, and began to dream again.

Despite her disability, the mother demonstrated incredible resilience and responsibility, carefully following the specialists’ recommendations. The grandmother became the family’s anchor, providing the stability and care the children so needed.

Today, the Slastion family is an example of how professional support can change lives. The children communicate, play with their peers, participate in group activities, and — most importantly — feel safe again.

This is a story about fulfilling every child’s right to protection, development, and support — and about how the “Responsible Citizens” team, together with UNICEF Ukraine, makes these rights a reality every day for families affected by the war.